It is natural to be nervous especially when meeting a stranger for the first time and sometimes that stranger could end up becoming part of our lives.
When going out for a date with someone we know nothing about, a lot runs through our mind and most of the questions we ask ourselves without getting answers is ‘ Is he going to harm or rape me’? not bad to stress yourself with such questions because it’s good to be security conscious.
Most of the times, you get carried away by your emotions on your first date and you won’t know when you will start pouring out secrets you are not supposed to reveal to the stranger.
Do you know the person can easily figure out your weak points? it’s possible because most people read minds and with the character you display at that moment, the person will have it in mind that he or she can easily lure you with sweet romantic words.
Below are things you should not do when going out on a first date:
Don’t look scared
Don’t be nervous
Don’t talk about the nature of your father’s job
Do not forget to ask questions
Don’t dress like an irresponsible girl
Don’t talk about when last you had sex
Don’t go with friends if you are meeting in an open place
Don’t look dull
Don’t share your whole life story
Don’t be rude to the waiters
Don’t lie about yourself
Don’t get drunk.
Don’t order for many things
Don’t boast about what you have or do
Don’t talk about your past relationship
Don’t take too many Phone calls, you can put your phone on silence
Don’t forget to look directly to the person’s eyes when talking